When your boyfriend breaks up with you, ignoring him might be the farthest thing from your mind. Your instincts will be telling you to do just the opposite. You feel if you stay close to him, he will not forget you and find someone else. But, you will find that the more you push him to want you again, the more he will pull away. The best way to make him crazy for you again is to put male psychology in action.
This is not anything mysterious and it does not require you to learn something new. In fact, you used male psychology to get him in the first place. When you were playing hard to get and making him chase you, that was using male psychology. A man will always want what he thinks he cannot have. Whether it is a new car, promotion in his job or a woman. But, when you become too available, he will lose his desire for you.
That is the reason ignoring your ex boyfriend can be so effective in getting him back. It will make him think you do not care for him anymore and that will be a challenge. Chasing him and telling him you cannot live without him will have the opposite effect. Your ex will feel he can have you anytime he chooses and he can take his time. Seeing you act as if he no longer exists will be a big blow to his ego and pride as well.
When he broke up with you, he never thought you could let him go, but when you ignore him, he will have to change his mind. Your ex will begin to feel a growing respect for your strength and maturity and have second thoughts about the breakup. All of these thoughts will make him see he was a fool to let you go. When he starts to see his mistake, he will want to correct it.
Without realizing it, your ex boyfriend is right back where he started.
This puts you back in control and it is your ex boyfriend that is feeling rejected and lonely. Soon he will realize that he misses you and will not have any peace until he has you back in his arms.